Aggression .

"Rami, a tenth-grade student is considered a particularly troublesome child. At school he respects no one, treats everyone with contempt, and is aggressive to the people around him. He also causes problems for his parents. He steals the family's car, cruises around and commits traffic offenses. Rami's parents are very worried, especially his mother whom he doesn't listen to and responds rudely to.

Rami hasn't always behaved like this. He used to be a somewhat quiet and introverted child until his cousin, whom Rami felt very close to, unexpectedly committed suicide. Since then, Rami has become a pampered child, sleeping during the day and awake at night, neglecting himself and his studies and exploiting his parents. They continue to feel sorry for him, while he threatens that if he doesn't get what he wants, he will commit suicide. The parents feel torn. On the one hand, they are afraid he will harm himself, and on the other, they are afraid that if they give in to all his requests he will also become a lost child. Rami has recently started to smoke without shame in front of his father and to hit his little sister. All requests to him to change his ways have made absolutely no impact.

The parents approached Rami's homeroom teacher whom Rami respected in the past. The teacher spoke to Rami about his falling grades and his behavior, but this made no impact. The teacher then opened the Quran and read to Rami verse 160 from the Sura, The Cow: "As for those who repent, reform, and proclaim, I redeem them. I am the Redeemer, Most Merciful." "


-Is loss an excuse for aggression?. Retrieved January 31, 2009, from quranet.net Web site: http://www.quranet.net/en-quranet/1-chapter-1/2-is-loss-an-excuse-for-aggression.html


This is a good example of many kids of today. It's mostly teens that get this weird irritating aggression and they get so stubborn. We shouldn't be like that. Well we should try not to. It's probably like a teen thing, but we should learn to control our thoughts and actions. For the sake of Allah (swt)